FATHER'S DAY

While being online sometime last week, I came across the fact June 21 is WORLD FATHER’S DAY. I wonder many a time that fathers are surely less recognized / celebrated as compared to mothers. I am sure there was more publicity and hype around MOTHER’S DAY.

Now why this step-motherly treatment to a father (the usage sounds weird right?)…see even there mothers rule!!!! :):) kidding!!!

I do believe there is a reason for this. A mother has a biological connect to the child simply because that’s the way it is. No two ways about that. And hence the influence a mother has on her child. It’s that simple. Do a quick check: you will surely be closer to the relatives/cousins on your maternal side than the paternal side. RIGHT? That’s how strong her influence is.
I believe that dads don’t get their due as the equal half in parenting. Isn’t that so unfair? Poor men!!! They might typically not be as outwardly emotional or affectionate as the mom but come on; they have done stuff for you, cared for you as much….and hence deserve their share of receiving.

In a typical family system like in India, the father is your window to the outside world: sports, education, employment, money to name a few. These tend to gain more importance and self-realisation towards the later years compared to the early formative years where the mother exerts a huge influence and impact. That’s probably the reason that a father’s contribution seems rather intangible and hard to measure when compared to a mom’s. Importantly in the above aspects mentioned, the influence of peers and friends by then becomes as important. And hence further dilution in his perceived contribution and impact.

These were thoughts even as I sent out FATHER’S DAY greetings to my dad and spent an hour thinking of what he has done for me. What he means to me and my life.

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!!! And I wish we could say like the Maruti Suzuki SX4 commercial – ‘’MEN ARE BACK’’!!! ;););)