25 Random Things to break the block!!

I haven't written stuff on this blog for exactly 20 days :(:(



A fellow blogger suggested that I break this writing block by putting down 25 random thoughts as they come to my mind....I have taken this seriously and let me see what I can make up

1. Why have cheer leaders been force fitted into IPL? Something I believe is not part cricketing pedigree. It certainly fits like a glove in say NFL, NHL coz it is integral to them; starting from high school and college games.


2. Film stars and politics seemed quite connected in India. Now film stars and cricket!!!....should I say in the business of cricket?


3. Why don't our film actors lend their business acumen and presence to revive / support sports like hockey and badminton?


4. Boris Becker stormed in and won the 1987 Wimbledon. When he couldn't defend it in 1988 and there was a big hue and cry in the media, he simply said ''I just lost a match...no one died here''.


5. Nothing compares to watching Test Cricket in Australia on Channel Nine at 4.45AM with the hallowed commentary team of Bill Lawry, Richie Benaud, Tony Grieg and Greg Chappell.


6. If people think and believe that SRK is full of himself, isn't he aware or doesn't he know it at all? It's all part of his strategy to craft and sustain an on-screen persona.


7. On the same lines, was shocked to see SRK look just himself playing a character as explosive and intriguing like King Ashoka.


8. Why can't boys wait to wear full pants while grown up men roam around in shorts?


9. There is no rock band like Guns N Roses; Axl and his voice remains in my mind as fresh as always


10. If we as Indians have made pizzas and colas an integral part of our food habits, why haven't dosas and tender coconut water done the same to the Western world? Are we missing a strategy here?


11. Why do we continue drinking colas despite knowing and reading enough about their ill-effects - is it sheer neglect or is it an everlasting fad?


12. We usually never haggle on price at a branded store or an expensive outlet, but can't wait to push for best prices at food malls and lowest air fares.


13. Why a sudden spurt of flying shoes in Indian and global politics? hahaha...look how we are keeping our young politicians on their toes!!!


14. If we spoke of anger and flying footwear...someone got into trouble for showering love and affection on his political opponent!! Love..where art thou??


15. I wonder how e-mails made letter writing redundant...and how now online chats have made e-mails redundant...how SMSes may shortly make telephone calls redundant?


16. Why do women never/hardly follow women's cricket? especially when there is much women's emancipation in the air.....


17. I love the Beatles song...ELEANOR RIGBY...check out the lyrics..very melancholic and has deep meaning


18. Why do the westerners in general have a clear line of divide between personal and professional time whereas they are completely inter twined for us Indians?


19. Why is WORK such an integral part of life for some (Indians for eg.) while it is just a fragment of life for others (in the Western world)?


20. All said and done, Mandira Bedi is a first mover in this whole glamorous-women-broadcasters-in cricket phenomenon...others are just following her.


21. What happens at all to all these winners from reality music, comedy and dance TV shows?


22. Despite all the professionalism talk in corporate world, why is still the BOSS ALWAYS RIGHT??!!


23. Rocking line from Metallica ''What I've felt...what I've known..never shined through in what I have shown''


24. Why do we pay rich (??) tributes to others only after they are no more with us or leaving us? Almost as though we had forgotten their achievements..and their parting/death reminded us just in time


25. Isn't the above almost like a reactive vs. pro- active strategy?

A dichotomy in belief

Imagine this situation: Let's say I applied for a job position and didn't get thru or I didn't make it to some top university despite putting in a lot of effort. I surely would have heard a friend or parents / elders consoling me with words like 'Don't worry, it wasn't destined that you would make it here' OR 'It's all planned and something better awaits you'.

But wait!!! Didn't the same friend/elder tell me (while I was preparing for this very job interview/exam) that one can make his own path; that destiny and best efforts are always rewarded and you would make it.

So what happened suddenly? Didn't I put in my best or did destiny take a last minute U-turn? Why does this dichotomy of belief exist? Are we/others consoling ourselves? Am I being the ostrich and not facing up to reality? Would I call it destiny or my own efforts had I instead been successful? Am I being fatalistic here? Was I not good enough to shape my own destiny?

I wonder many a time why I do the above and try to interpret the consequences or the actions?

The answer to this in my opinion, is two fold. First we are all human and it is natural to be subject to a plethora of emotions and such thoughts. At the same time, are we taking a hard look at effort and then objectively looking at the consequence? Maybe that's what is needed. It's a mind vs. heart thing when it comes to reflecting and looking back at such stuff.

If that happens and can be done consistently, there will probably be no slowdowns...no U-turns...only drive-aheads with an extremely clear rear view mirror.

Charity Anyone!!

I was reading some articles or news about some celebrities adopting kids, donating millions to charity. So how should I view this? Was left wondering if I should think - What's so great if Madonna adopts a kid? I am sure she has a caretaker....What's magnanimous about another celebrity donating millions to charity? They anyway make millions, don't they?

Or should I be thinking - They are giving back to society that made them what they are today. This is amazing?

Then I rationalised. Madonna or Angelina or Sachin Tendulkar are as human as each one of us; when it comes to emotion or feelings. They surely would have a perspective or a view towards society and their contribution as co-occupants in it.

It is just that the bright lights of the media and their glamorised lives have blinded us to their human side.

What about the countless people among us; mere mortals if you want to call so, who donate to charity within their limited monetary capacities, or adopt an orphan into their family? Am I even aware of these people? Do I stop and acknowledge their contributions? These are probably the unsung heroes within us.

So its best left when everyone & anyone is treated for what their inner human self does or calls for. Maybe I shouldn't be reading too much into their status in society but take an objective look at what they are actually doing.

Face the Brute

I remember my father telling me this story of Swami Vivekananda. It seems that while he was walking around in the city of Banaras, a bunch of monkeys started getting close to him and seeing this he started running. They chased him and he ran until gasping for breath, Swamiji slowed down only to try again to run. Right then an old ascetic sitting nearby told him ''STOP!! DON'T RUN!! FACE THE BRUTE!!'' Swamiji did exactly that; turned around and looked at them...THEY FLED!!! He later spoke to people about this experience and told people that the monkeys in the story are not different from the problems we face in life. One needs to take the problem head on and it just vanishes.

I remember my Math professor used to say the same; he used to say ''never get scared of a Math problem or a Geometry rider....look at it hard, think deep and you will see that the problem is then suddenly scared of you''.

At work recently there was one small pending issue which I was lil lazy and apprehensive to take on, kinda letting linger in the background. One morning I was like WHAT THE HELL...let me find out what it is all about....I did exactly that and believe me, the issue was resolved in minutes and there I was leaving it bother me for days together. Simply because I didn't make the effort to take it head on and solve it.

It is about FACING THE BRUTE of any size or intensity. The effort is what is required. Well the results could vary and need not be always in one's favour. But yes, at least we would have the satisfaction of having been responsible and brave to face the issue.